Shelley Rorvick , LMFT

Shelley Rorvick is a licensed LMFT with 12 years of clinical experience supporting individuals and couples through complex relationship and sexuality concerns. They hold the credential LMFT - Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist - which reflects specialized training in relational dynamics and family systems. Based in Minnesota, Shelley works with a broad range of issues including LGBTQ matters, intimacy and sexual functioning, addictions and process behaviors, trauma and abuse, and family of origin concerns.

Shelley brings particular experience with attachment difficulties, non-monogamous and ethically non-monogamous relationships, and communities engaged in BDSM, kink, and alternative sexual cultures. Their practice also addresses gender dysphoria, infidelity, communication challenges, and various forms of sexual and process addiction. Shelley uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques to help clients identify strengths, clarify goals, and develop practical skills for healthier connections and sexual well-being.

Working in both English and Spanish, Shelley approaches therapy from a sex-affirming and culturally aware perspective that honors each person as the expert of their own story. They emphasize collaboration, respect for individual values and identities, and a belief that beginning therapy is a brave step toward change.

Evidence-Based Approaches for Relationships and Sexual Health Online

Shelley draws on evidence-based therapeutic techniques tailored to relationship and sexual health concerns. One focus is attachment-informed work, which explores patterns formed in early relationships and how those patterns affect current partnerships and communication. This approach can help people understand emotional needs and build more secure connections.

Another emphasis is a sex-affirming, kink-competent approach that supports clients navigating BDSM, non-monogamy, sexual dysfunction, or process addictions. These methods prioritize nonjudgmental exploration of desires, boundaries, and consent while addressing the practical and emotional impacts of sexual behaviors.

Finding the right therapeutic method is a collaborative process. Shelley works with clients to identify which techniques match their goals, identities, and comfort level, adjusting the plan as progress unfolds so therapy stays relevant and effective.

Online sessions offer flexibility and accessibility through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging, allowing clients to engage from home or other convenient locations. This variety of formats helps accommodate different schedules, communication styles, and levels of immediacy while maintaining consistent therapeutic support.