Lawrence Losoncy , LMFT

Lawrence Losoncy is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) practicing in Oklahoma with 46 years of clinical experience. He focuses on helping individuals, couples, and families navigate relationship challenges, parenting concerns, grief, intimacy issues, trauma, addictions, and a wide range of life stressors. As an LMFT he brings a systemic perspective to therapy, and as an AAMFT Fellow he holds a professional recognition within the marriage and family therapy community.

He works with parents and caregivers of troubled children, including those on the autism spectrum, and has particular experience with adoption and foster care, blended family dynamics, and the stresses that accompany caregiving roles. He has also supported clients dealing with spiritual or religious wounds, single parenting, hospice and end-of-life issues, and the complex emotions around infidelity, divorce, and midlife transitions.

Losoncy previously served for six years in Oklahoma as an Indian Child Welfare Director for a tribe, a role that informs his understanding of family systems and child welfare concerns. In sessions he listens carefully, offers observations and practical suggestions, and collaborates with clients to create action plans they find useful and realistic. He works with individuals even when only one person attends, providing insights and guidance they can share with family members.

He is also an author of six recently published books available on Amazon, covering topics such as managing work-from-home stress, early childhood development, marriage, healing from spiritual wounds, a couples workbook, and a novel about a meteorologist confronting an apocalyptic threat. His approach combines practical strategies with a respect for each family’s unique history and goals.

Therapeutic Approaches and Online Care

Lawrence Losoncy draws on client-centered therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and emotionally-focused therapy (EFT) in his work. Client-centered therapy emphasizes a supportive, nonjudgmental stance where the therapist listens closely and helps clients find their own solutions - it is often helpful for building self-esteem, coping with life changes, and strengthening relationships.

CBT focuses on identifying and changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviors. It is practical and problem-focused, and can be effective for anxiety, depression, stress, and patterns that interfere with daily functioning. Emotionally-focused therapy concentrates on the emotional bonds between partners and helps couples understand and respond to each other's emotional needs, which can improve intimacy and communication.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process, and Lawrence works collaboratively with clients to determine which methods best match their goals, preferences, and the challenges they bring. He tailors interventions over time so clients feel the work fits their situation.

Online therapy options include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging, offering flexibility for different schedules and comfort levels. These formats make it easier to maintain continuity of care during busy periods or when in-person meetings are impractical, while allowing licensed professionals to deliver consistent, goal-oriented support.