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Dabney Hayes

LPCC, LPC

Dabney Hayes , LPCC, LPC

Therapist in North Carolina

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About Dabney

Dabney Hayes brings 14 years of clinical experience supporting people facing stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, addiction and a wide range of relationship and life challenges. She focuses on the roots of dysfunctional behavior - including shame, perfectionism, low self-esteem and the fallout from loss or abuse - and helps clients build healthier patterns, stronger self-regard and more authentic lives.

Dabney has provided therapy in both individual and group formats and has worked with children, adolescents, young adults and families. Her practice addresses everyday stressors such as parenting struggles, family conflict, school and work pressures, anger management and the complex interplay of co-occurring concerns. She also works with issues related to intimacy, sexual diversity, grief, caregiver stress, chronic illness and identity development.

Her approach is integrative and client-centered, drawing from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Attachment-Based Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) and other evidence-informed techniques. The LPCC and LPC credentials indicate that she is a licensed counselor - trained to assess, diagnose and treat emotional and behavioral concerns. Dabney offers a warm, nonjudgmental stance and aims to collaborate with clients to heal wounds, change unhelpful patterns and move toward a life aligned with their values.

Therapeutic Approaches and Online Support



Dabney often draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, which helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them while clarifying personal values to guide meaningful action. This approach is useful for anxiety, depression, avoidance and life transitions.

Attachment-Based Therapy is another core influence - it explores early relationship patterns and how they shape current bonds, communication and trust. It can be especially helpful for relationship difficulties, abandonment concerns and attachment wounds that affect intimacy and family life.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) offers practical strategies to identify and shift unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns, making it effective for mood concerns, stress, and problem solving. Dabney approaches therapy collaboratively and will work with each person to determine which methods fit their needs, goals and preferences. She helps clients experiment with approaches and refine what feels most helpful over time.

Online sessions - whether by video call, phone, live chat or text messaging - make it easier to fit therapy into busy schedules, reach people in different locations and continue care through life changes. These options provide flexibility and access so that therapy can happen in a way that suits each client.

Frequently asked questions

How much experience does Dabney Hayes have?

Dabney Hayes has 14 years of experience as a therapist.

Is Dabney Hayes a licensed therapist?

Yes. She holds the LPCC and LPC credentials. License details are CA LPCC 21269 and CO LPC 0016842.

In which languages does Dabney Hayes provide therapy?

Therapy is provided in English.

Where is Dabney Hayes located?

Dabney Hayes is located in North Carolina.

How can I work with Dabney Hayes as my therapist?

You can work with Dabney Hayes through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Dabney Hayes work with international clients?

Yes, Dabney Hayes works with international clients.

How much does therapy with Dabney Hayes cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepressionCompassion fatigue

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

14+ years

Licensed

North Carolina, Florida, Washington, Colorado, California, South Carolina

Languages

English

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